Dear Katie,
I'm 22 and have just started going out with my first ever boyfriend and until a few weeks ago I was a virgin! I am still really nervous about having sex and can only do it after a few drinks. I'm afraid I won't be good enough.
Lucy, Castlebar, Co. Mayo.

Dear Lucy,
It's completely normal to be nervous about sex at the beginning, everyone is. I know you may feel embarrassed but sharing this with your boyfriend and explaining the fact that you're not very experienced will help him understand your reason for being nervous. Believe me, after talking about it with your boyfriend you'll feel a lot more relaxed about the situation and you'll find it easier to break the drinking habit before it gets out of hand.

Dear Katie,
The only thing in the world I love as much as my boyfriend is my dog. I've had my dog for years and really couldn't live with out her. My problem is that my boyfriend hates her, please advise me.
Nicole, Clontarf, Co. Dublin

Dear Nicole,
Try to figure out what his problem with dogs is; maybe he genuinely has a fear. If that's the case, he can visit a therapist to help him get over his fear.If it's simply a case of pure dislike you'll need to take a step back and see how that stands with regards to your relationship. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with this man and can handle his dislike of dogs, you should be able to make it work without leaving your pooch behind.

Dear Katie,
I'm 29 and have been with my partner for nearly two years. He's 46 and has two children from his previous marriage. I get on great with his children, but I'd really like a child of my own. The problem is he really doesn't want any more kids.
Laura, Kenmare, Co.Kerry.

Dear Laura,
You need to have a serious conversation with your partner and see where your relationship is heading. CHildren mean commitment, so perhaps he has commitment issues stemming from his previous marriage break-up. If you feel this might be the problem tell him you're not going anywhere and how much having a child means to you. Otherwise, cut your losses and move on. I know it will hurt and you will be devastated for having to leave him, but in the long run it will be better for both of you. You will find your perfect match out there who wants the same things you do. If you and man your with now really feel like you're meant to be together then I'm sure you will both be willing to compromise and work it out between you.